Loneliness

Dear readers! In this blog let’s drive through the most ripping topic loneliness constructively.

What is loneliness?

Is it good to be alone?

Does loneliness affect one’s mental health?

In this whole universe, there are jillions of folks. An individual is surrounded by family, closest friends/besties, near and dear ones and fellow beings. Whatever the phase/mode of life, we do spend quality time with our fellow beings. But some souls love to spend time/life alone. When a person isolates from society it is loneliness. At the same time if individuals love to spend time enjoying themselves, then it is solitude. In my perspective, it’s good to be alone.

A person who spends time/life alone isolating themself from their very own family members or friends is a sure shot to undergo mental distress and health problems. In my opinion, a person is encompassed by family, besties and also parents but is neglected or not paid attention to or if the individual feels he/she is undeserving then the phase of loneliness comes into play. In such scenarios, the particular individual goes through rough and tough times. The feeling the individual undergoes is incomprehensible. This is termed real loneliness. Amid near and dear ones, if a person is abandoned then it’s aloneness.

Happy spending life being alone – loneliness

On the contrary, some individuals love to get along with their very own company. Such kinds of people never regret the presence of people around them. The individual strives to understand the self to the core and also stays away from the vibes mellowing negative. The person tries to analyse things happening in life. Moreover, the mortal makes effort to sort out the puzzles and riddles flowing in his/her life troubleshooting the whole box of wax.

The term self plays a very significant role. Likewise, from the person’s perspective, selfishness is defined as self-care. Not everyone in the universe is capable to run through in solitude. It requires a large amount of courage, a stable mind, broadness, self-love, versatility, positivity and determination. In short, he/she must be a tough cookie. The individual with the above-mentioned characteristics will be devoid of mental and physical disposition. Such persons tend to enjoy life to the core, being independent, taking decisions by self and so on. Accordingly, the person gravitates toward a free bird.

To illustrate, such individuals, not being accompanied by near and dear ones or left somewhere alone, never regret or feel. The lone wolf parties and enjoys life strikingly.

Epilogue

Moreover, the person who spends time alone will be able to understand the self quite more, analyse and manage things. On the other hand, the person who is in groups struggles to comprehend. Likewise, I do agree, in this modern era, an individual must be gregarious, create and develop social networking skills and be explorative. But for how many days and how many fellow beings will travel in one’s life? He/ she may be a passing cloud in an individual’s brio. Some things can’t be defined.

Therefore, it’s better to spend some time in loneliness understanding self, learning how to control emotions, manage, decision making, learning how to strongly face a particular uninvited situation and responding to events independently and greatly. Similarly, in the phase of loneliness, the individual should never allow the inner self to navigate in the negative trend. It’s the distinct period of life where one should accelerate positively, learning and developing skills, staying as fit as a fiddle mellowing blissfully. The individual himself/herself should be the positive ray of hope and faith.

In my perspective, loneliness is not an affliction. It is the time/tenure spent in life or to be spent analysing, discovering and illuminating the best self.

Thoughts and perception

Vibrant Vaishnavi