Marriage

Greetings to my fellow readers! In this article am going to project what is marriage and the essentials of wholesome marriage. Life is beautiful and hit-and-miss. Marriage is something where one shares life with beloved ones. A girl spends ephemeral years with her parents. But she spends the rest of her life with her soulmate. Wedlock life becomes as pretty as a picture when everything mellows streamlined.

What is important in marriage?

There are many petite things in life which we don’t stress upon. To have a lovely wedded life, the couple must boast the following:

Trust

The couple though love or arranged unification, must trust each other. Whatever the situation, upstream or downstream in life, one should never doubt or have a perplexed mind or frame opinion about the other half. Trust is like a glass or delicate tie, when once broken or cut becomes hard to connect. If the trust is superabundant consequently, the fine relationship between the couple will become dynamic.

Communication

Secondly, communication between the couple plays a very significant role. The couple must speak out, and spend some quality time together to share thoughts, feelings, events that happened, expectations, reality happening in life, in fact, the whole nine yards. This helps them to overcome misunderstandings about life. The consort must feel comfortable reciprocating what he/she wants to share instead of keeping silent or taciturn. Hence, the bond between the couple grows superior.

Absence of negotiator

Life is full of ups and downs, moreover, married life is a combination of ginormous love and responsibilities. Whatever the phase or situation in life the consort must never allow the third party/close friends/family members/parents to get involved or act as a linkman/link woman to light upon the labyrinthine in life. It’s good to get advice/assistance from elders but not as an arbiter. At times, it may create misunderstandings and also devise a gap between the lovely loving couple.

Immense love and respect for each other

The twosome must fashion whacking love, adoration and respect for each other. The soulmate must ever be present to take care of each other, complement each other and support. When the best half requires help or support or stress, the other half should be strong enough to become the pillar of strength and pathway of light and hope. One may face many hindrances or stumbling blocks but if the consort is right never step behind.

In addition, the adoring couple must not possess an ego in them. This particular feature has the power to destroy the relationship which is seraphic.

The category of marriage

The category or the type of marriage has nothing to do with the bond that exists between the couple. In a love marriage, the twosome gets to know each other prior and in an arranged marriage, the couple becomes better acquainted later. In my opinion, that is the only difference.

Therefore, it’s not about the sort of marriage, it’s all about how a couple understands each other, supports, showers colossal love and display firm belief in reliability alongside taking the responsibilities together.

Moreover, age has nothing to do with marriage life. When a couple gets married, they spend some quality time together, dating, laughing, chatting, dancing, enjoying and travelling together.

But after a few years, what feeling instigates to lower these? Beneath are some of the reasons.

• Now am a father I have a son/daughter…
• Fear of the comments he/she gets to hear from others.
• The responsibilities flash more light when compared with love?
• The man/woman is not strong enough to face fellow beings.
• Any side of the couple’s parents being dormant or myopic in visioning son’s/daughter’s married life.

To this end, one should live a wedded life like a king and queen.

The couple can witness a strong love-lasting married life only if they are sound enough to prioritize things, and take responsibilities together, whatsoever happens he/she is always omnipresent to support and protect. Our own selves do cherish, embrace and respect all relationships but one of the most important relationships is the interconnection between the partners of life. There is always a magic present between the couple which only quite a few witnesses.

LOVE TO A GREATER EXTENT… LIVE… ADMIRATION … RELIABILITY…WHOLESOME…HAPPY MARRIED LIFE

Thoughts & perception

Vibrant Vaishnavi